Life is a Fabulous Blend...
Monday, September 12, 2005
  We Looked LIke Giants
I'd like you all to take a second and actually examine yourself in this situation: you are walking to a class, nice weather outdoors, a little breeze, bright sun, lots of people. You pass someone, anyone. What do you do?

I've noted 3 common responses. 1) avoid any kind of contact, including eyes, bag knocking, stumbles, glance at clothes, etc. 2) eye contact and continued movement or 3) some other form of interaction like a smile, hello, how are ya, wat up, yada yada.

Now, not that I've been bored or anything, or that I walk alone every where I go on campus, but I've been trying to take these opportunities to formulate some kind of hypothesis determining who, why and when peopel choose each one of these options.

I am a classic 2/3. Depending on the vibe I get from someone I will either simply connect and move on if no further action is detected from the other side, or I will put myself out there and try a 3. Only if Mr. Graycloud decides to fog my mood for the day do I ever choose option number 1.
What I've noted after paying way to much attention to these interactions is that I get very offended by being ignored, and slightly creeped out by a prolonged smile, and a mix between comfortable and judged with eye contact. No wonder people feel awkward at all the above interactions.

But if I had to do a psychological analysis of the 3 interactions they would go as follows
1) Either you're a classic emo kid, the kid with the BMW, or the boy who if avoiding suicide by recieving self-help talks via his headphones. These people tend to be either really uncomfortable with themselves (thus promoting a self-absorbed vibe) or to into their head that an interaction is not worth it. The only ones I have found who do not fit this catagory is the occasional, very distracted, normal kid.
2) People who are either interlocked in conversation on their phone or with another individual, or those who are performing their own pyscho-analysis of me! These ones are very common so they vary in actual description. Their actions are most likely attributed to a lack of confidence which pulls them shy of option 3 but allows them to check out the oncoming situation regaurdless.
3.) The outgoing type, someone whom you are aquainted with, or anyone who is seeing the glass half full. I'd like to try to be this person all the time but the fact of the matter is, very few people have the energy or desire to do so effectively without seeming a bit creepy.

So, what'll it be. Walk cautious, walk slow, and figure out how many of each you come across. YOu will be astounded by what you can see in this blink interaction.
As for tomorow, I am just gonna focus on getting out of bed...
 
Comments:
I love analyzing things like that - but think: There are way more variables that contribute to a persons reaction. Immediate ones:mood, weather, comfort, clothing, music, all elements of setting and personality. Then theres less obvious ones:name, day, whether your shoes are bugging you or not, drama of the day, recent injuries. And still more: a single loose hair annoyingly tickling your neck, a leaf taht crunches under your foot. And everyone of these variables is connected to other variables just to make them a variable. Everything is connected, and to say that you can analyze things simply is to have read a book by someone who read a book and then to take action by it. To say that life is vast is an understatement. Did I go off topic? Oh well, I miss you anyhow.
 
counting down the days till oregon comes. I LOVE YOU
 
Post a Comment

Subscribe to Post Comments [Atom]





<< Home

My Photo
Name:
Location: San Francisco, California, United States

I'm a young performing artist jumping around the West Coast with my animals looking for it all.

Archives
May 2004 / June 2004 / July 2004 / August 2004 / September 2004 / October 2004 / November 2004 / December 2004 / January 2005 / February 2005 / March 2005 / April 2005 / May 2005 / June 2005 / July 2005 / August 2005 / September 2005 / October 2005 / November 2005 / December 2005 / January 2006 / February 2006 / March 2006 / April 2006 / May 2006 / June 2006 / July 2006 / August 2006 / September 2006 / October 2006 / November 2006 / December 2006 / January 2007 / February 2007 / March 2007 / April 2007 / May 2007 / June 2007 / August 2007 / September 2007 / October 2007 / December 2007 / January 2008 / February 2008 / April 2008 / May 2008 / June 2008 / July 2008 / August 2008 / September 2008 / October 2008 / November 2008 / December 2008 / January 2009 / February 2009 / March 2009 / April 2009 / May 2009 / June 2009 / July 2009 / August 2009 / September 2009 / October 2009 / December 2009 / June 2010 / October 2010 /


Powered by Blogger

Subscribe to
Comments [Atom]