Paint me a picture of man
What makes up a man? Is it skin, bones, and gew or is it heart, soul and mind? I'd like to believe in a combination of the two, but even this leads me to a lack of logic. I am brought to this thought that man is neither matter nor idea but rather man or woman, is made up of time. It is only his or her past that defines him today. If no time were to pass, no man would exist. Truely exist, and be something beyond a lump of matter.
Take a man whom you know exists. He acts a certain way, thinks a certain way and looks a certain way. All three actions can not be described in terms of matter, all three cannot be described in terms of ideas, but all three can be known in terms of time. "I act this way because my mama beat me during childhood"..."I think this way because I read alot of science fiction in my spare time"...."I look this way because I used to live in Florida"....So if time is what a man is made up of, then why can't we change people just as easily as they change over time? Why can't we control men like we control the fads of the ages? It is always said "Don't try to change someone" but we all do it anyways. We hope that our ideas will somehow influence the ignorant. We pray our religion with seep through our actions and change the lost. We even dress a certain way in order to change how others veiw us. When we will learn...
I'd like to think that time isn't made of permanent ink. That upon branding us with scars and wounds, or blissful memories and soft spots, that we can write over those brandings at any time. Say if we don't want to be afraid of commitment we could rewrite a time of infidelity by persuing a successful marriage. But, unfortunately, time works much more like a pen than a pencil; not so easily erased.
So now I ask you; is it possible to change a man?To change what time has written in permanent ink on the minds and bones of those we love? Or are we fighting a loosing battle? More importantly, can we ever hope to live beyond our past? I know forgiveness, I understand movement, but I can just not answer straightly to time.....
Favorite bumper stickers of the day:
"(next to a peace sign) Back by popular request"
"(on a small compact car) Your truck may get the ladies, but I got mother nature's favor"